Can love happen twice???


Not everyone in this world has the fate to cherish the fullest form of Love. Some are born , just to experience the abbreviation of it….. 😦 

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I too had a love story :(


Days pass by somehow

But nights now are a wagon of pain

Injuries may heal with time

But marks will always remain

Restless on my comfortable bed

I toss and turn and try to sleep

But thoughts are bulking my head

And have formed a huge heap

The past is flashing its scorching light beams

Tearing me apart, breaking me at the seams

The darkness of my life is more visible in the dark

And now am trying to give it a voice ,trying to speak my heart…… 😦


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Thought of suicide…..


Its all about misfortunes,

And varied complicated issues.

We can never asses,

The criticality of Life’s mess.


Expectations are undying,

and miseries are enduring.

Problems are unsolved,

Questions are unanswered.


None consent our perception,

And care for our elation.

Everyone poke in our life,

And fill it with their type.


To get rid off all these,

Thought of suicide

Will finally suffice…… 😦 😦 😦 

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Attraction at its disguise…


Love…. 🙂 Such an angelic word which brings a smile on everyone’s face. It reminds about that person whom u loved the most in your life.

Love has got various marvelous intends. Intend differs from person to person and from relation to relation. Why girls or guys keep changing their partners now and then? Is it because they don’t love them? Or is it because their love fades with time and they get drawn by other’s charm? 

The foremost reason is, people don’t consider their relation seriously.  When they propose someone and assure to be with that person life long, why do they ever think about another person and break their relation? At initial stage of love, every lover does things to impress his/her beloved. Acts are performed only to portray positive stuff of their’s. Mesmerized by this, obviously any person starts loving their partner more and gets immersed in a temporary paradise.

Relation weakens when they get to know the bitter truth of their partner which was hidden since they were in relation. Ego and attitude over comes the so called love which was the root cause for them being together. Don’t ever spoil the tenderness of love by ditching your better half.

If you are not capable of maintaining a good relation, then don’t ever step into that. True love never fades. It has got no end and is eternal. The misconception of attraction for love is the main reason for all love failures.

Be honest and truthful to your partner; love the person in your own unique way, never allow ego and attitude to interfere your relation. Give your partner enough space for enjoying with friends. Gifts and stuff doesn’t matter in a relation, what matters is your presence. No matter how busy you are, try to spend time with your lover and do express your love in terms of care and affection.

Always remember this …….

The minute you think of giving up a relation, think the reason why you held it so long. True love never fails……

Love and be loved….. 🙂 🙂 🙂

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This is what she needs :)


She needs those fingers, 

Which wipes off her tears.

She needs a shoulder,

Where her dreams are welcomed.

She needs a smile,

Which turns her on.

She needs a warm hug,

Where she feels secured.

She needs such words,

Which soothes her.

She needs a hand,

Which hold her tightly when the rest abandon.

She needs those lips,

Which pray for her silently every second.

She needs a heart,

Which understands the pain in her silence.She needs a person,

Who laughs aloud at her silly jokes;

Who can do anything for the curve on her lips;

Who can wait his whole life, just to see her for a moment;

And who can go against the world, to be with her his entire life ……    🙂


Little care-affection-understanding-love,

This is what she needs…….  🙂 🙂 🙂




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Marriage :)


I just logged in to check my mail. It brought tears to my eyes…  It made me realize the importance of relationship….

Why do people deny the heart which loves them truly???

Why don’t they understand the pain of a broken heart?? ?

Why do they long for such a happiness which is just temporary???

This is the mail which i was talking about. Read this, and u will know what LOVE is, and what MARRIAGE is all about……. 🙂


When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed – dead.

My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.– At least, in the eyes of our son— I’m a loving husband….


The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!!!   



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